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Should I stay or Should I go?
She paused and said with a quiet despair, “I just don’t know what to do!”. We both sat in silence for a moment, allowing the statement to...
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Life Really Can Start at 40
Matt Marney recently invited me onto his podcast to talk about creating (and letting go of) a wellbeing business and navigating big...
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I DO! (do I?)
I recently witnessed two of my dear friends get married at FABULOUS Jewish wedding on a beautiful summer’s day in London. It was full of...
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Why isn’t this enough? (Actually, it’s too much!)
As I sat down, in what was obviously the ‘client’ chair, my therapist asked sweetly “So what brings you here today?” I took a deep breath...
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Are you 'KIND OF' in alignment?
“I feel so lost, like I don’t know who I am anymore”. My heart breaks open in identification, as I hear her share this with so much...
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Trashing my own boundaries (again!)
As I sit in a puddle of my own exhaustion and bubbling resentment, I realise I've done it again. Sigh. Despite my best efforts and...
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Silencing your inner critic: even in the toughest of times
About 10 years ago, I was on a 7-day silent retreat. My secret hopes of finding inner peace and bliss were high, but of course convincing...
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Knowing when to Let Go
It’s such a tricky thing, right!? Knowing when to stay and when to let go. I’ve wrestled with this my entire life. And hands up, my...
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Midlife is a call to greater freedom.
Can you hear it? Midlife is such a weird, hard, potent and fascinating stage of life! It's a time when the kids are grown and / or we've...
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Growing Down, Not Up!
Well hello, Spring! It's been a while. Seems we're in sync as I’ve been going through yet another growth spurt recently. Darn it, I...
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Your life is speaking to you (and it is LOUD!)
“Hello, my name is Deborah, and I am a metaphor-bore!” I jest a bit, but it’s so very true. Anyone who has spent longer than an hour in...
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Are we LIVING or FUNCTIONING?
What Does it Look, Sound, Feel Like to Feel Fully Alive? There's an African Proverb that goes like this "When death finds you, may it...
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Putting the Cart before the Horse
It was all going so well. Every morning I meditated for 10 - 20 minutes. On days when I was in a rush, I made sure to squeeze in a...
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The only way through, is THROUGH!
No matter where I've been in the world, or who I'm with, everyone - and I mean EVERYONE - wants the same things; love, friendship,...
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It’s not in the numbers my love, (I PROMISE!)
And so here we are again – and before we dive in, let’s pause here, because even THAT is something to celebrate! Heck, we made it into...
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Let's get HYGGE with it !
This time of year has often felt a bit challenging for me. The long, dark winters and the paradox of my body wanting to slow down, while...
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Yep, it's pretty crazy out there right now!
As I’ve landed back home in the UK, it’s taking time to find my rhythm again. My soft, warm animal body is making many adjustments – to...
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Less is DEFINITELY more!
It’s not new news. I’m always happier when I have less: less stuff and possessions, less responsibilities, decisions and plans, less...
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Sharing vs Enjoying experience
Well, hello! How the angel are you? Gosh it’s been a while eh? Time feels like a moving slip wind through my hands lately. As I’m coming...
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We are a process, not a thing!
I was out hiking recently with a friend in northern California. Though we're thousands of miles apart. our lives have very much run in...
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