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Your ‘What’s Next?’
I’ve always loved this time in between – after the Christmas frenzy and before we fully jump into the flow of things. Everything feels...
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STOP! The One Ritual You Must Do Before Setting Goals This Year
Whoa there Nelly, hold up a moment my love. Before we dive headfirst into a new year with resolutions and to-do lists, let me ask: when...
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Here's Your Permission Slip
Dear Wonder Woman, I don’t know about you, but I'm entering this holiday season with a whole bunch of things not done! This might sound...
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Heartbreak in Losing a Friend
This week, I said a final goodbye to one of my dearest and closest friends. Dears, my heart is broken beyond belief. There’s a unique...
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Why I’m Doing More Coaching and Mentoring
"I’m in a rut. I feel stuck and lost, like I don’t know who I am anymore." I hear this so often, and every time, my heart aches with...
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Good news! We’re afraid of the wrong things
Let’s start with a bang and talk about the F word - Fear. (I know, I’m like a bundle of joy landing in your feed or inbox today, right!)...
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Should I stay or Should I go?
She paused and said with a quiet despair, “I just don’t know what to do!”. We both sat in silence for a moment, allowing the statement to...
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Life Really Can Start at 40
Matt Marney recently invited me onto his podcast to talk about creating (and letting go of) a wellbeing business and navigating big...
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I DO! (do I?)
I recently witnessed two of my dear friends get married at FABULOUS Jewish wedding on a beautiful summer’s day in London. It was full of...
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Why isn’t this enough? (Actually, it’s too much!)
As I sat down, in what was obviously the ‘client’ chair, my therapist asked sweetly “So what brings you here today?” I took a deep breath...
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Are you 'KIND OF' in alignment?
“I feel so lost, like I don’t know who I am anymore”. My heart breaks open in identification, as I hear her share this with so much...
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Trashing my own boundaries (again!)
As I sit in a puddle of my own exhaustion and bubbling resentment, I realise I've done it again. Sigh. Despite my best efforts and...
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Silencing your inner critic: even in the toughest of times
About 10 years ago, I was on a 7-day silent retreat. My secret hopes of finding inner peace and bliss were high, but of course convincing...
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Knowing when to Let Go
It’s such a tricky thing, right!? Knowing when to stay and when to let go. I’ve wrestled with this my entire life. And hands up, my...
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Midlife is a call to greater freedom.
Can you hear it? Midlife is such a weird, hard, potent and fascinating stage of life! It's a time when the kids are grown and / or we've...
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Growing Down, Not Up!
Well hello, Spring! It's been a while. Seems we're in sync as I’ve been going through yet another growth spurt recently. Darn it, I...
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Your life is speaking to you (and it is LOUD!)
“Hello, my name is Deborah, and I am a metaphor-bore!” I jest a bit, but it’s so very true. Anyone who has spent longer than an hour in...
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Are we LIVING or FUNCTIONING?
What Does it Look, Sound, Feel Like to Feel Fully Alive? There's an African Proverb that goes like this "When death finds you, may it...
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Putting the Cart before the Horse
It was all going so well. Every morning I meditated for 10 - 20 minutes. On days when I was in a rush, I made sure to squeeze in a...
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The only way through, is THROUGH!
No matter where I've been in the world, or who I'm with, everyone - and I mean EVERYONE - wants the same things; love, friendship,...
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